10 Songs You Should Never Play at a Wedding (And What to Play Instead)
Planning your wedding playlist is one of the most exciting parts of your big day, but it’s also easy to make a few musical missteps. Over the years, performing as an Anaheim wedding singer and acoustic guitarist, I’ve seen what works… and what can unintentionally dampen the mood.
Some songs might be classics or even personal favorites, but their lyrics or backstory can make them awkward choices for a romantic celebration. To help you avoid those cringeworthy moments, I’ve put together my list of 10 songs you should never play at a wedding—and what to play instead.
1. “I Will Always Love You” – Whitney Houston
Why not: This emotional ballad is beautiful, but it’s actually about saying goodbye, not starting a life together.
Play instead: “At Last” – Etta James – A soulful, timeless classic perfect for first dances or intimate moments.
2. “Every Breath You Take” – The Police
Why not? It may sound romantic, but the lyrics tell a story of obsession and possessiveness.
Play instead: “Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Elvis Presley – Gentle, heartfelt, and perfect for a wedding ceremony.
3. “Marry You” – Bruno Mars
Why not: It’s catchy, but the lyrics make it sound like a spontaneous joke wedding in Vegas.
Play instead: “You Are the Best Thing” – Ray LaMontagne – Fun, upbeat, and about real, lasting love.
4. “Gold Digger” – Kanye West
Why not: It’s about someone marrying for money, not exactly the love story you want to tell.
Play instead: “Crazy in Love” – Beyoncé ft. Jay-Z – Keeps the energy up without the awkward message.
5. “You Give Love a Bad Name” – Bon Jovi
Why not: A rock anthem, yes—but also about betrayal and heartbreak.
Play instead: “This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)” – Natalie Cole – Uplifting, celebratory, and perfect for the dance floor.
6. “My Heart Will Go On” – Celine Dion
Why not: Forever linked to Titanic—a love story that didn’t exactly end happily.
Play instead: “A Thousand Years” – Christina Perri – A modern romantic favorite, ideal for walking down the aisle.
7. “Love the Way You Lie” – Eminem & Rihanna
Why not: Themes of toxic love and conflict don’t belong at a wedding.
Play instead: “Perfect” – Ed Sheeran – Romantic, modern, and beautiful in an acoustic arrangement.
8. “D-I-V-O-R-C-E” – Tammy Wynette
Why not: The title says it all—definitely not wedding material.
Play instead: “Better Together” – Jack Johnson – Sweet, simple, and perfect for relaxed beach or outdoor weddings.
9. “Before He Cheats” – Carrie Underwood
Why not: Unless your reception theme is “revenge,” skip it.
Play instead: “Speechless” – Dan + Shay – Emotional and sincere, perfect for first dances.
10. “Macarena” – Los Del Rio
Why not: A 90’s party classic, but it tends to clear the dance floor at weddings.
Play instead: “Uptown Funk” – Bruno Mars – Fun, energetic, and guaranteed to keep guests dancing.
Why Your Wedding Playlist Matters
Your playlist sets the tone for your entire celebration. The right songs can make your guests feel connected, emotional, and ready to party. The wrong songs can create awkward moments—or worse, kill the vibe.
As an Anaheim wedding singer and acoustic guitarist, I work closely with couples to create a soundtrack that reflects their personalities and love story. From the ceremony to the cocktail hour to the last dance, every moment should feel perfect.
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The majority of the alternative songs I mention in this post are actual on my songlist.
I’ve been performing at weddings and private events for over 15 years, bringing a mix of classic love songs, modern hits, and special requests to make each event unique.
I serve couples across Anaheim, Huntington Beach, Newport Beach, Laguna Beach, and Los Angeles to name a few top cities. If you’re planning your wedding and want live acoustic music that’s romantic, classy, and unforgettable, I’d love to help bring your vision to life.
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